I’m having some Saturday Night Genealogy Fun (#SNGF), with help from Randy Seaver and his prompts! Feel free to join in.
Saturday Night Genealogy Fun: February 7, 2026
Prompt:
“Have you researched the ancestors of your spouse (or significant other)? Please list the names and vital records data for your spouse/SO’s grandparents and great-grandparents like in an Ahnentafel Report.
“Have you written genealogical sketches and/or biographies for each of them?
“Share your list of your spouse/SO’s ancestors in your own blog post or in a Facebook, SubStack, BlueSky or other social media post. Leave a link to your post on this blog post to help us find your post.”
Introduction
I’m having some Saturday Night Genealogy Fun (#SNGF), inspired by one of Randy Seaver’s prompts, and this one made me stop and think a bit longer than usual.
The prompt asks:
Have you researched your spouse’s ancestors? Can you list their grandparents and great-grandparents, maybe even write sketches or biographies for them?
And here’s where I’ll be honest.
Oh, heck no – you do not want a neat list of names from me.
What you probably want to know is something more interesting anyway:
Have I been neglecting my husband’s side of the family in favor of my own?
Short answer: no.
Longer answer: his ahnentafel is shorter than mine, but not because it matters less, only because it unfolds differently.
My Side vs. His Side
I’ve been researching my own family for much longer, and like many of us, I grew up hearing stories that naturally pulled me in that direction. Familiar names, familiar places: they create an emotional gravity that’s hard to resist.
But researching my husband’s family changed once we had children.
Suddenly, this wasn’t just his ancestry. It was theirs.
And unlike my own lines, his family history reaches across the ocean only a few generations back. That means records still exist in European archives – records that are surprisingly rich, precise, and sometimes humbling.
What His Ancestors Taught Me
Researching my husband’s family has taught me things I never would have learned otherwise.
I’ve gained a deep respect for careful Jewish recordkeeping.
I’ve watched surnames and spellings shift – and the language of the records – depending on who was occupying a region at the time.
I’ve seen how laws, traditions, and restrictions quietly shaped people’s life choices in ways that don’t always announce themselves on a pedigree chart.
This is why I don’t think genealogy should ever be a numbers game. We all know that moment – someone boasting about the size of their tree – and how empty that can feel.
What matters is what each line teaches you.
A Gentle Challenge
So here’s my question for this week’s SNGF:
What have you learned by researching someone – or somewhere – that was unfamiliar to you at first?
Not how many names you added.
Not how far back you went.
But what surprised you once you slowed down and paid attention.
Figure 1 My husband’s cousin’s birth, recorded in Russian because the Russians occupied Suwalki in 1909.
EDIT TO ADD: the ahnentafel – most recent two generations dropped.
Generation 3
4. Samuel BIRNBAUM: born 14 Apr 1885 in Eperjes, Saros, Hungary, now Presov, Presov, Slovakia; married 24 Apr 1906 in New York, New York, USA; died 25 Dec 1954 in Los Angeles, Los Angeles, California, USA.
5. Anna Brenda FRANK: born 6 Mar 1889 in Manhattan, Kings, New York, USA; died 28 Aug 1971 in Los Angeles, Los Angeles, California, USA.
6. Samuel GOODE (GUDELSKY): born 21 Apr 1878 in Augustow, Suwalki, Poland; married 4 Aug 1899 in Veisiejai, Seinai, Suwalki, Lithuania; died 18 Mar 1958 in Rochester, Monroe, New York, USA.
7. Ida Khaya Fruma RABINOWITZ: born bet 1872 and 1875 in Veisiejai, Seinai, Suwalki, Lithuania; died 21 Jul 1952 in Rochester, Monroe, New York, USA.
Generation 4
8. Bernard (Joe) BIRNBAUM: born say 1860 in Austria-Hungary; married bef 1885; died bef 1908.
9. Fanny STEINBERG: born say 1860.
10. Joseph (Pinkus) FRANK: born Apr 1852 in Russia; married 17 Jan 1888 in Manhattan, New York, New York, United States; died 14 Jun 1916 in Manhattan, New York, New York, United States.
11. Jennie FELDER (FELDELOSS): born 20 Dec 1859 in Austria; died 8 Mar 1922 in Manhattan, New York, New York, USA.
12. Szmujło Morthaj GUDELSKI: born 20 Jun 1837 in Suwałki, Suwałki, Suwałki; married 1855 in Suwalki, Lithuania; died 11 Sep 1914 in Suwałki, Suwałki, Suwałki.
13. Cywa “Sylvia” BACHRACH: born abt 1835–1836 in Suwalki, Suwalki, Suwalki; died 5 Nov 1900 in Suwalki.
14. Mordecai RABINOWITZ: born abt 1837; married bef 1864; died aft 1901.
15. Chaia RACZKOWSKA: born abt 1828 in Veisiejai, Seinai, Suwalki, Lithuania; died 17 Jan 1901 in Seirijai, Sejny, Suwalki, Lithuania.
Generation 5
20. Samuel FRANK: born in Russia.
21. Fanny SEGAL: born in Russia.
22. Joseph James FELDER: born in Austria.
23. Rosie : born in Austria.
24. Manel Nochim Lejbowicz GUDELSKI: born abt 1800–1810; married bef 1826; died bef 1885.
25. Rejza Hirszowna SEJNENSKI: born abt 1807–1811 in Wierzbołów now Virbilis Lithuania; died 1885 in Suwalki, Lithuania.
26. Mowsza BACHRACH: born abt 1792; died 18 Mar 1846 in Suwalki.
27. Rocha Rochla CHONOWNA: born abt 1805; died 8 Apr 1867 in Suwalki.
28. Rubin RABINOWITZ: born 1803; died 2 May 1877 in Dusnitse, Krasnovo, Sejny, Suwalki.
30. Gotlib RACHKOVSKI: born abt 1789; died 5 Jan 1859 in Seirijai, Sejny, Suwalki, Lithuania.
31. Genia Henia SMOLENSKI.
Generation 6
48. Lejb GUDELSKI: born abt 1775.
50. Hirsz Girsz SEJNENSKI: born 1798; died 8 Nov 1858 in Suwalki.
51. Bejla HIRSZOWNA: died bef 6 Nov 1858.
52. Jankiel BACHRACH.
54. Chonel .
60. Aron RACZKOWSKI.
61. Feiga .
Generation 7
100. Josiel SEJNENSKI.
102. Hirsz .
122. Wolf .
AI Disclosure
This post was created by me with the help of AI tools. While AI helps organize research, the storytelling and discoveries are my own.